Legend's four rules of dating

#1: women do not want to become an outlet for a mans cathartic needs, unless that need is explicitly to love them.
This means that whining, crying, bitching, and reflecting on your trauma is a turnoff to them.
The reasons why women do this are complex. Sometimes a woman will provide a man with an outlet to cry on,
but only when it will be in their favor to do so. It is not in their interest.

 #2: women respect men who are unfazeable, funny, and monetarily self-sufficient.
There are no substitutes for these traits. Develop them or fail.


 #3: for reasons that are self-evident to biology and gender roles, women are weak. They cannot and will not support a man's emotional need for stability or security, unless they are nurturing or behaving in a nurturing manner is necessary to protect a reality they hold dearly. Never turn to a woman to receive reinforcement for things you are afraid of, never show her that you are uncertain, never give her the impression that you doubt yourself. She will run away. It's possible to debate, discuss, plan, and find agreement with a woman strategically, and if you have female friends you can achieve some reinforcement from them, but not from women who you want to be interested in you for long.

#4: women unconsciously prefer relationships where a mutual dislike would be probable, and where there is an exception to the rule in their favor. This means that you will experience greater frequency of matches by reaching out into social groups that you are not part of when looking for a mate.

Anything not in this list is a matter of personal taste and can't be helped. Failure to master this list will keep you from being a man. You are only a boy until you master these four essential elements. Unattractiveness, genitalia size, skin color, no friends.. none of these things will matter anywhere as much as what's on this list. Mastering all these things will make up for a good part of them.